Chinese stringing experts talked about Iga's rackets, strings, and bands.
Daria is responsible for sending Iga's racket to the stringing team;
Sometimes Iga comes over with Daria, but Iga stands quietly behind, when Daria responsible for communication;
Iga asks the stringing team to help wrap her bands.
Iga has no special requirements for strings and bands.
Does anybody have a video of Iga's and Daria's hug before the match that was posted on IG? It was titled something like :
"sometimes champions need a hug too"
Does anybody have a video of Iga's and Daria's hug before the match that was posted on IG? It was titled something like :
"sometimes champions need a hug too"
Does anybody have a video of Iga's and Daria's hug before the match that was posted on IG? It was titled something like :
"sometimes champions need a hug too"
One of my most widely read and commented upon posts is “Is Your Therapist Retraumatizing You,” which cautions the reader to listen to their intuition and steer clear of questionable interventions from a therapist. Sexual harassment and assault by the therapist are traumas I didn’t specifically address in the article, so I will focus on it here.
The #MeToo social media movement initiated by Alyssa Milano’s tweet, “If you've been sexually harassed or assaulted write "me too" as a reply to this tweet,” is illuminating the vast span of individuals impacted by sexual harassment and assault. This post is dedicated to all individuals (across gender) that have been victims of sexual and gender harassment and assault by their therapist (e.g., psychiatrist, psychologist, counselor, psychoanalyst, psychotherapist, social worker, etc.). As a member of a profession that has taken an oath to “do no harm,” please let me state up front how very sorry I am to anyone who has suffered sexual transgressions and rape at the hand of a healer.
Before I proceed, I will personally disclose that I have encountered a few “me too” experiences—as an active duty military member and later by the psychologist professing to help me. It is an extra vulnerable experience when we share our deepest secrets and fears with a trained and licensed professional healer (that we’re paying) and they turn around and use the information to manipulate and perpetuate the same offense.
It is a deep hurt and one of the biggest challenges victims face is wondering what they did to allow it happen—especially when they return. The other is what to do with the rage and anger that tends to get bottled up and displaced in a number of self-harming ways. Another factor that hovers at bay like a distant boat that can’t reach land due to extreme fog, might be, “This reminds me of what happened when I was young and am I destined to be a target for this behavior forever?” Even more frustrating and crazymaking for some is the desire to not lose the connection with the offender.
This combination of reactions and triggers to sexual harassment and assault can put a person in shock, denial, and shame—which leads to silence and internal self-destruction. Emotional and behavioral symptoms can include:
Denial and numbness
Major Depressive episodes to Post-traumatic stress disorder
Self-attack and self-harm
Episodic rage or temper outbursts
Inability to sleep, nightmares, and teeth grinding
Eating disorders like overeating, anorexia, and bulimia
Alcohol and drug abuse
Sexual difficulties ranging from frigidity to sexual acting out (children may use inappropriate sexualized behavior and play out sexual activities with their toys)
Isolation and increased fear and mistrust of others
Heightened anxiety, reactivity, and sensitivity
Inability to make decisions
Extreme compliance and/or defiance with mix of alternating between the two
Overall relationship and career difficulties
Keep in mind that these can be extremes. Generally, not always, a client that is seeing a harassing and/or assaulting therapist may have been manipulated or “groomed” over a period of time, so the offense becomes something they often feel complicit in and confused by.
Sexual harassment by a therapist tends to be slow like the story of the boiling frog. If a frog touched boiling water, it would immediately retreat. Yet when placed in a pleasant tub of tepid water that is slowly warmed to boiling, it acclimates so easily to the changes in temperature that it boils to death before realizing what happened.
Like the frog, some people can terminate immediately and walk away (while still being harmed) while others find themselves confronting inappropriate behavior their therapist has assured them was therapeutic to their progress. This can be debilitating on so many levels and is reprehensible when harassment and assault are framed as therapeutic.
The following list denotes acts of harassment and/or assaulting behaviors real therapists have done to their clients in the name of therapy (These are not okay!):
Overly inquired about client’s sex life and/or sexual fantasies
Described their own sex life and/or abilities and fantasies
Sat inappropriately close to the client and patted knee for reassurance
Kept increasing closeness over time and touching other areas of person’s body
Hugged client tightly and hugged for longer times in each successive session
Suggested cuddling or inappropriate contact to help heal abandonment or preverbal trauma
Played pornography and/or made a recommendation to engage in massage, sexual activity, and/or engaged in sexual activity to help heal, teach, empower client, etc., etc.
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission task force on harassment in the workforce reports suggest that 75 percent of people harassed in the workplace do not report it. I suspect that number could be the same or higher for those who have been harassed by a therapist. Perhaps it is no wonder when over 50 percent of the workplace harassment cases filed were thrown out. On top of that, a 2003 study found that 75 percent of workers suffered mistreatment for filing a harassment charge. That is a systemic reinforcement of silencing harassed victims. I suspect this looms worse for those harassed by a therapist who is equipped with all of the technical jargon for dismissing the victim by pathologizing them with a host of psychological diagnoses.
Even if you have a mental health diagnosis, it does not mean you have any less of a claim to defend yourself. You matter and your health and sanity matter—and no matter what you said and did, it is not ever okay for a therapist to sexualize, harass, or assault you. Ever.
Sat inappropriately close to the client and patted knee for reassurance.-Daria did it.
Kept increasing closeness over time and touching other areas of person’s body.-Daria did it.
Hugged client tightly and hugged for longer times in each successive session.-Daria did it.
Suggested cuddling or inappropriate contact to help heal abandonment or preverbal trauma.-Daria did it.
Played pornography and/or made a recommendation to engage in massage, sexual activity, and/or engaged in sexual activity to help heal, teach, empower client, etc., etc.-Daria did it?
Wow, this is now more like a Daria thread than an Iga one. I honestly understand people's concerns, but right now, there's no point to discuss it every day. And we certainly can't do anything about it.
If we need to talk about this, then at least, say something new, what do you think should be done and by who? Her friends, father, sister, her team seems to be okay with them being this close, if it's truly happening, Iga's other loved ones would do something or maybe they don't want Iga to be angry at them and to turn on them.
Maybe the mom could say something, since she has "nothing to lose", Iga already doesn't communicate with her, so she could say something in a more public way. Even after a divorce, Iga is still her child, if she knows something, she should speak out.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
Iga wouldn't listen to her mother or anyone else. Daria is now her psychologist, mom, manager, coach, PR-agent, friend, etc, etc, etc, at least 15 roles in one person...
Is that true that mom left them when they were kids?
Is that true that Daria and Iga are a couple?
no. this is fueled by one poster who is posting libel on an anonymous forum. if this wasn't an anonymous forum she/he would have been sued to bankruptcy by now.
Is that true that mom left them when they were kids?
Is that true that Daria and Iga are a couple?
1. Iga was already a teenager and a tennis player travelling around the world when the parents split, so not exactly.
2. Their relationship is way closer than a normal athlete-sport psychologist relalationship and not very professional, but the couple-talk is more like an online theory that some people gossip about.
Does anybody have a video of Iga's and Daria's hug before the match that was posted on IG? It was titled something like :
"sometimes champions need a hug too"
Re: Sportowe plotki
Post autor: cobra » 24 sie 2021, 20:29
Usłyszałem przed chwilą plotkę od osoby z otoczenia Darii Abramowicz, że Iga Świątek i Daria Abramowicz są parą od niedawna - stąd np. brak Sierzputowskiego na Wimbledonie. W pierwszej chwili pomyślałem, że to brednie, ale może coś jest na rzeczy? Tym bardziej, że druga plotka od tego Pana to że Malwina Smarzek już nie jest Godek i też jest w parze z koleżanką z drużyny, co już brzmi prawdopodobnie.
"I just heard a rumor from Daria Abramowicz that Iga Świątek and Daria Abramowicz are a couple recently, hence, for example, the lack of Sierzputowski on Wimbledon. At first I thought it was bullshit, but maybe something's up? The second rumor from this gentleman is that Malwina Smarzek is no longer Godek and is also paired with a teammate, which sounds probably already."
The source of the rumor comes from here, which is a ridiculous rumor. My friend said her friend said he saw Iga and Daria having sex in the Tokyo Olympic Village.
Iga wouldn't listen to her mother or anyone else. Daria is now her psychologist, mom, manager, coach, PR-agent, friend, etc, etc, etc, at least 15 roles in one person...
Daria made a fortune by Iga's bonus and fame. Now, she just wants more.
Wow, this is now more like a Daria thread than an Iga one. I honestly understand people's concerns, but right now, there's no point to discuss it every day. And we certainly can't do anything about it.
If we need to talk about this, then at least, say something new, what do you think should be done and by who? Her friends, father, sister, her team seems to be okay with them being this close, if it's truly happening, Iga's other loved ones would do something or maybe they don't want Iga to be angry at them and to turn on them.
Maybe the mom could say something, since she has "nothing to lose", Iga already doesn't communicate with her, so she could say something in a more public way. Even after a divorce, Iga is still her child, if she knows something, she should speak out.
It is widely discussed because people can see that there is a problem. If people do not discuss it, it is connivance for potential covert manipulation or sexual abuse.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
An other example of Daria's unprofessionalism:
Yeah, I also think that her mom probably didn't do anything harmful to Iga. She was interviwed by a Polish newpaper, she could've throw Iga, Daria, her ex-husband, anyone from the team under the bus, yet she literally said that she doesn't want to go into details in public. She clearly deeply cares about her daughter's position.
That makes you wonder why Daria won't or can't do anything about it. She clearly knows Iga's reason to behave this way, but she is also so super-close to this family, that she's probably personally invested too. She is more like one of the family members in this situation than a psychologist... Which definitely shouldn't be the case at all. This is just an other reason why you must keep a certain professional distance. But she couldn't.
I have a feeling that her mom isn't a fan of Daria, but she don't want to hurt Iga by starting a media back and fort fight.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
When Iga thanks her dad and her sister, but leaves out the mother, that doesn't sound like she moved on, she's healthy and she doesn't care. She is 21 years old, I hope she will mature with time. Daria should help her. It's harder to have a Serena-like or Djokovic-like decade dominance if you have mommy issues. She has the tennis to be dominant that long, but mental stability is also important.
I love Iga, she's so talented, so pure, I don't want her to feel hurt.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
What you said is exactly what I am confused about. Since Daria is so good at dealing with media, how could she not be aware of public speculation about Iga's family affairs? She absolutely knows. She absolutely knows the most appropriate response. Iga never thanked her mom.
I think the mom won't say anything specific, because she fears that it would harm Iga's career to put her into a position where the media is asking her about Daria all the time, it would be hard to focus on tennis that way.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
I can feel that Iga's mom is in a very awkward situation. It is known that Daria has taken over her position and dominated all of her daughter's affairs. To be honest, I don't think her mom has done anything bad to Iga. But Iga's disregard for her mom now makes everyone puzzled and worried. Moreover, letting a living mother disappear from Iga's life and deepen the rift in the family is not the correct advice of a professional psychologist. I mean, with Daria's knowledge, she couldn't have been unaware of the ongoing and widespread discussion about Iga's mysterious mom. But Daria let the Internet speculate and did nothing. If she had encouraged Iga to say thanks to her mom, the situation won't be better. I think this is also one of the reasons why people generally have a negative attitude towards Daria. As Iga's "close psychologist", she has not had a positive effect on repairing Iga's relationship with her mother.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
That actually seems likely. The worst part is that we don't need to see their lives, just a few pictures and interviews tell you enough to know that this is just wrong and unprofessional on so many levels. Your psychologist can't be your mother, your manager, coach, PR agent, best friend and who knows what else, especially not at age 21! She can't be trusted to help Iga's issues with her mom if she is personally invested and her interest is to keep Iga the way she is, letting her to deliberately NOT mentioning her mom ever. She is not an objective voice this way. There's just no explanation to jusify this.
I also don't believe her mother did something really bad. Iga is young, she could be hurt from anything from the time her parents separated, but Daria doesn't seem like someone who wants Iga to help in this.
Yes, I totally agree with everything you just wrote.
Obviously, Iga is an adult, she can make decisions for herself, I don't want to tell her what to do about Daria, her mom or anyone else, BUT at the same time, I often wonder why she has to specifically say "thank you to my father, thank you to my sister"?! She could just say "thank you to my family" and she could think about her dad and sister in her head. Every times she has a speech like this, people in the comments start to ask why she refuses to mention her mom. It almost sounds like she intentionally wants people to know that she DOESN'T say thank you to her mom, in front of everyone. Like a message. And that's sad. And yes, if Daria is such a great psychologist, if she cares about Iga's mental state so much as she says, does she thinks it's a perfectly normal, healthy, mature thing?
The reason why it's important, because we could use so many players as examples from both WTA and ATP to see that on the long run, you can only stay consistent, dominant if you have a healthy, stable relationship with your family. Otherwise, sooner or later it can even hurt your tennis career, yes.
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
That actually seems likely. The worst part is that we don't need to see their lives, just a few pictures and interviews tell you enough to know that this is just wrong and unprofessional on so many levels. Your psychologist can't be your mother, your manager, coach, PR agent, best friend and who knows what else, especially not at age 21! She can't be trusted to help Iga's issues with her mom if she is personally invested and her interest is to keep Iga the way she is, letting her to deliberately NOT mentioning her mom ever. She is not an objective voice this way. There's just no explanation to jusify this.
I also don't believe her mother did something really bad. Iga is young, she could be hurt from anything from the time her parents separated, but Daria doesn't seem like someone who wants Iga to help in this.
I understand what you mean. If Daria had ever reminded Iga, just like the frequent intimate whispers she and Iga had - "Iga, remember to thank your mother in your speech." "Iga, pay attention to your speech and don't let people speculate about your family affairs.". We won't have all the chaos around Iga that we see today. The most ridiculous rumor I've ever seen - "Iga and her mother have a bad relationship because their mother opposes her homosexuality, or their mother opposes Iga and Daria's love."
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
That actually seems likely. The worst part is that we don't need to see their lives, just a few pictures and interviews tell you enough to know that this is just wrong and unprofessional on so many levels. Your psychologist can't be your mother, your manager, coach, PR agent, best friend and who knows what else, especially not at age 21! She can't be trusted to help Iga's issues with her mom if she is personally invested and her interest is to keep Iga the way she is, letting her to deliberately NOT mentioning her mom ever. She is not an objective voice this way. There's just no explanation to jusify this.
I also don't believe her mother did something really bad. Iga is young, she could be hurt from anything from the time her parents separated, but Daria doesn't seem like someone who wants Iga to help in this.
I understand what you mean. If Daria had ever reminded Iga, just like the frequent intimate whispers she and Iga had - "Iga, remember to thank your mother in your speech." "Iga, pay attention to your speech and don't let people speculate about your family affairs.". We won't have all the chaos around Iga that we see today. The most ridiculous rumor I've ever seen - "Iga and her mother have a bad relationship because their mother opposes her homosexuality, or their mother opposes Iga and Daria's love."
Yes, that's totally ridiculous. I mean yes, the mom maybe doesn't like that Iga and Daria are so close, but she would have very real and understandable reasons to not like it, reasons that have nothing to so with gayness.
It seems more likely that they have a more personal issue, something to do with Iga's dad, but Daria doesn't help her with her family issues. Daria seems like a selfish person who doesn't mind Iga's mother issues if she can become closer with Iga herself instead.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
That actually seems likely. The worst part is that we don't need to see their lives, just a few pictures and interviews tell you enough to know that this is just wrong and unprofessional on so many levels. Your psychologist can't be your mother, your manager, coach, PR agent, best friend and who knows what else, especially not at age 21! She can't be trusted to help Iga's issues with her mom if she is personally invested and her interest is to keep Iga the way she is, letting her to deliberately NOT mentioning her mom ever. She is not an objective voice this way. There's just no explanation to jusify this.
I also don't believe her mother did something really bad. Iga is young, she could be hurt from anything from the time her parents separated, but Daria doesn't seem like someone who wants Iga to help in this.
I understand what you mean. If Daria had ever reminded Iga, just like the frequent intimate whispers she and Iga had - "Iga, remember to thank your mother in your speech." "Iga, pay attention to your speech and don't let people speculate about your family affairs.". We won't have all the chaos around Iga that we see today. The most ridiculous rumor I've ever seen - "Iga and her mother have a bad relationship because their mother opposes her homosexuality, or their mother opposes Iga and Daria's love."
Yes, that's totally ridiculous. I mean yes, the mom maybe doesn't like that Iga and Daria are so close, but she would have very real and understandable reasons to not like it, reasons that have nothing to so with gayness.
It seems more likely that they have a more personal issue, something to do with Iga's dad, but Daria doesn't help her with her family issues. Daria seems like a selfish person who doesn't mind Iga's mother issues if she can become closer with Iga herself instead.
Speaking of Daria's selfishness, I remembered the young female physical therapist who occasionally helped Maciej with physical therapy. Daria's group photo on instagram excludes her from the team. And in Maciej's group photo, there's her. That woman, Martina? I have a private photo with Iga. It seems that Iga doesn't hate her. Earlier this year, she also replaced Maciej. Oh, and Daria seems to be jealous of all the young girls who approach Iga. You can read her disgust in her expression. Does she have any mental illness? I can't understand her motives. Isn't it a good thing that more people are serving Iga?
I dare say that the vast majority of Iga fans will agree with you. Fans are not fools. All fans, whether you are Polish or not, can see Daria's deviant behavior. I swear, on July 26th, 2021, after Iga lost to Paula, we clearly saw that Daria used her right hand to massage Iga's bare thigh. From that moment on, Daria has been on my blacklist.
I swear that what I said is true. The broadcaster in our country has recorded the entire process of Iga from saying goodbye to Paula, crying on the bench, and leaving the court.
Maybe Daria never wants to help Iga with her family problems. The fewer family members Iga has around her, the more she needs Daria.
That actually seems likely. The worst part is that we don't need to see their lives, just a few pictures and interviews tell you enough to know that this is just wrong and unprofessional on so many levels. Your psychologist can't be your mother, your manager, coach, PR agent, best friend and who knows what else, especially not at age 21! She can't be trusted to help Iga's issues with her mom if she is personally invested and her interest is to keep Iga the way she is, letting her to deliberately NOT mentioning her mom ever. She is not an objective voice this way. There's just no explanation to jusify this.
I also don't believe her mother did something really bad. Iga is young, she could be hurt from anything from the time her parents separated, but Daria doesn't seem like someone who wants Iga to help in this.
I understand what you mean. If Daria had ever reminded Iga, just like the frequent intimate whispers she and Iga had - "Iga, remember to thank your mother in your speech." "Iga, pay attention to your speech and don't let people speculate about your family affairs.". We won't have all the chaos around Iga that we see today. The most ridiculous rumor I've ever seen - "Iga and her mother have a bad relationship because their mother opposes her homosexuality, or their mother opposes Iga and Daria's love."
This is clearly by extreme homo, or by Daria's supporters.
This photo was taken by the paparazzi outside Iga's house in Raszyn. That AMG was very much like Daria's. The plausible reasoning is that Daria driveed her AMG to Iga's house, then she parked her AMG outside the house, and they transfer to Iga's Porsche to go to the studio. Daria is really sick.
These Daria fans, why are they slandering Iga and Tomasz?
These two gentlemen, Tomasz and Maciej, both kept a very polite distance from Iga. They always disappear during the days without tennis. Creepy Daria's fans have lost their minds to defend Daria. That's fucking sick, Daria. So fucking creepy.