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I was one of those thinking Izzy and Ras would be the next couple to get engaged so now I’m thinking we definitely SHOULD NOT say cortnee or Mac will be engaged soon….
Da I actually am surprised that Izzy and Raso lasted as long as they did after Hayley moved to RM. pretty obvious they want different things out of life, don’t see Raso wanting to settle permanently in rural England where Izzy lives now and Izzy seems very settled.
Macca I could see getting engaged soon.
Depends what happens this summer I think with Mac. If she stays at West Ham with Kirsty I think she’s definitely engaged by the end of 2024, but if she leaves and they have to navigate long distance then I can see it ending like Raso and Izzy. Long distance, especially given the scheduling, is so hard to make time for each other and I think it takes a lot to make it work. Macca obviously did long distance before so not sure whether she’d be up for doing it again.
But every relationship has compromise and challenges, that’s just life. I wouldn’t write off Mac and Kirsty in the (extremely unlikely) event Mac moves teams. She did do long distance before, but she was younger then and less mature/sure of herself than she is now. I would also argue that relationship, from outside appearances anyway, wasn’t as healthy as the one she’s in now. Sam and Kristie did long distance for years and obviously made it through. Ellie and Daan will soon have to navigate what it’ll be like with one retired while the other is still playing. Seasons of life ebb and flow and a big part of healthy love is navigating those things together. Sometimes it just doesn’t work though and I think that’s all it is with Izzy and Hayley. They just wanted different things in the end and the compromise was just too much on either side
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I was one of those thinking Izzy and Ras would be the next couple to get engaged so now I’m thinking we definitely SHOULD NOT say cortnee or Mac will be engaged soon….😳
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Da I actually am surprised that Izzy and Raso lasted as long as they did after Hayley moved to RM. pretty obvious they want different things out of life, don’t see Raso wanting to settle permanently in rural England where Izzy lives now and Izzy seems very settled.
Macca I could see getting engaged soon.
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Depends what happens this summer I think with Mac. If she stays at West Ham with Kirsty I think she’s definitely engaged by the end of 2024, but if she leaves and they have to navigate long distance then I can see it ending like Raso and Izzy. Long distance, especially given the scheduling, is so hard to make time for each other and I think it takes a lot to make it work. Macca obviously did long distance before so not sure whether she’d be up for doing it again.
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But every relationship has compromise and challenges, that’s just life. I wouldn’t write off Mac and Kirsty in the (extremely unlikely) event Mac moves teams. She did do long distance before, but she was younger then and less mature/sure of herself than she is now. I would also argue that relationship, from outside appearances anyway, wasn’t as healthy as the one she’s in now. Sam and Kristie did long distance for years and obviously made it through. Ellie and Daan will soon have to navigate what it’ll be like with one retired while the other is still playing. Seasons of life ebb and flow and a big part of healthy love is navigating those things together. Sometimes it just doesn’t work though and I think that’s all it is with Izzy and Hayley. They just wanted different things in the end and the compromise was just too much on either side