by tai » 01 Apr 2024, 03:56
Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2024, 02:52
nanorobot wrote: ↑31 Mar 2024, 21:44
But Daria is indeed taking advantage of Iga. Both to gain financial benefits (Iga's sponsors, such as ON, Oshee, previously Asics, and probably Rolex, pay her) and to increase her own visibility by using Iga's brand for free (wherever she appears, she acts as Iga Świątek's psychologist). This woman cares about Iga only because she needs her to achieve her own goals.
of course, daria benefits from the relationship. i won't deny that. but it isn't necessarily the case that she's taking advantage of her. wouldn't iga herself know if she was being taken advantage of? i'm not accusing you of claiming that iga is stupid, but you must have the impression that iga is quite naive, then? i don't think that just because daria benefits from their relationship, that she doesn't sincerely care for iga and her wellbeing.
Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2024, 01:03
When a psychologist spends so much time with a client, it is already manipulation.
This relationship should be therapeutic, not some form of friendly, business, or even romantic interaction. In such a relationship, the clients are always vulnerable, because it is them who shares their life, and the psychologist should provide certain techniques, help to overcome some difficulties together, so that the clients can cope with their life and further challenges on their own. This is one of the goals of therapy. In Iga's case, we can see that the pani psycholog only increases her influence on her. She becomes a kind of indispensable member of the team, on whom everything rests. She should have stopped psychological work with her and, for example, remained her manager and an important member of the team, but at the same time transferred her client to another psychologist so that there would be no violation of boundaries. But she does not do this. After all, another psychologist grom the outsider would immediately help Iga to see these manipulations and make her more independent.
there are other players in the WTA who are very close with some members of their team, of course many were in romantic relationships with team members, but there are also cases of players having father-daughter like relationships with their coaches, for example, where they are as close as family. it's natural when you consider that they are travelling together all year long. but i understand that a psychologist is a bit different from a coach.
Guest wrote: ↑01 Apr 2024, 01:03
So you have an interesting theory, but the facts IMO indicate otherwise unfortunately.
I just hope that it is not a romantic relationship, because that would be a tragedy.
As for this, there are indeed a lot of easter eggs that this could be true. Constant vacations together separately from other team members. The complete absence of a husband in the life of this so-called psychologist. Damn, she can like and repost fan posts on Twitter. Obviously, she knows about these speculations about their romantic relationship. It would be very easy for her to refute them all if things weren't really so complicated and if she had the desire to do this. You post a picture with your husband on your anniversary on Instagram with the caption "my love, the most understanding man" and that's it, everyone forgets about these strange gossips for another year. But she doesn't do that. There are no questions about Iga here, she can really be busy with tennis, be a little asexual and not think about relationships right now, especially since she won't be able to build anything serious with such a schedule. That's why we don't see any signs from her. But D. she is a psychologist, an adult married woman. She could very quickly refute all these gossips, but she desn't do so, hiding behind Iga's back. It's interesting why.
i always thought daria mentioning her husband sporadically WAS her way of trying to shut down this gossip.
they don't date. iga doesn't seem to be interested in any woman She doesn't follow anyone on Instagram who is lesbian and doesn't seem to be interested in anything of the sort
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[quote=nanorobot post_id=5753432 time=1711921463]
But Daria is indeed taking advantage of Iga. Both to gain financial benefits (Iga's sponsors, such as ON, Oshee, previously Asics, and probably Rolex, pay her) and to increase her own visibility by using Iga's brand for free (wherever she appears, she acts as Iga Świątek's psychologist). This woman cares about Iga only because she needs her to achieve her own goals.
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of course, daria benefits from the relationship. i won't deny that. but it isn't necessarily the case that she's taking advantage of her. wouldn't iga herself know if she was being taken advantage of? i'm not accusing you of claiming that iga is stupid, but you must have the impression that iga is quite naive, then? i don't think that just because daria benefits from their relationship, that she doesn't sincerely care for iga and her wellbeing.
[quote=Guest post_id=5753795 time=1711933401]
When a psychologist spends so much time with a client, it is already manipulation.
This relationship should be therapeutic, not some form of friendly, business, or even romantic interaction. In such a relationship, the clients are always vulnerable, because it is them who shares their life, and the psychologist should provide certain techniques, help to overcome some difficulties together, so that the clients can cope with their life and further challenges on their own. This is one of the goals of therapy. In Iga's case, we can see that the pani psycholog only increases her influence on her. She becomes a kind of indispensable member of the team, on whom everything rests. She should have stopped psychological work with her and, for example, remained her manager and an important member of the team, but at the same time transferred her client to another psychologist so that there would be no violation of boundaries. But she does not do this. After all, another psychologist grom the outsider would immediately help Iga to see these manipulations and make her more independent. [/quote]
there are other players in the WTA who are very close with some members of their team, of course many were in romantic relationships with team members, but there are also cases of players having father-daughter like relationships with their coaches, for example, where they are as close as family. it's natural when you consider that they are travelling together all year long. but i understand that a psychologist is a bit different from a coach.
[quote=Guest post_id=5753795 time=1711933401]
So you have an interesting theory, but the facts IMO indicate otherwise unfortunately.
I just hope that it is not a romantic relationship, because that would be a tragedy.
As for this, there are indeed a lot of easter eggs that this could be true. Constant vacations together separately from other team members. The complete absence of a husband in the life of this so-called psychologist. Damn, she can like and repost fan posts on Twitter. Obviously, she knows about these speculations about their romantic relationship. It would be very easy for her to refute them all if things weren't really so complicated and if she had the desire to do this. You post a picture with your husband on your anniversary on Instagram with the caption "my love, the most understanding man" and that's it, everyone forgets about these strange gossips for another year. But she doesn't do that. There are no questions about Iga here, she can really be busy with tennis, be a little asexual and not think about relationships right now, especially since she won't be able to build anything serious with such a schedule. That's why we don't see any signs from her. But D. she is a psychologist, an adult married woman. She could very quickly refute all these gossips, but she desn't do so, hiding behind Iga's back. It's interesting why.
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i always thought daria mentioning her husband sporadically WAS her way of trying to shut down this gossip.
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they don't date. iga doesn't seem to be interested in any woman She doesn't follow anyone on Instagram who is lesbian and doesn't seem to be interested in anything of the sort