Blackpink

by **Guest** » Today, 04:32

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Rosé and Stella Coachella week 2

Here we go fanfic time again

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Rosé and Stella Coachella week 2

by **Guest** » Today, 02:24

The whole vid of Rosé making cheek-heart is so half-heartedly that it's amusing

by **Guest** » Yesterday, 19:20

She’s so dreamy

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What are the chances of them headlining coachella again another year? Has anyone ever done it twice ?

Yes I think the Red hot Chili Peppers and Bjork did it twice but I want the girls to do Lolla or Glastonbury.

by **Guest** » Yesterday, 01:41

Aespa's also performing in Coachella, right? I watched some of Le Serrafim's clips, I have no comment on their performance because I can't even get into the music. Just not my thing.

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 19:58

What are the chances of them headlining coachella again another year? Has anyone ever done it twice ?

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 19:25

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Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.
Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

Was it really that bad?? I wasn’t planning on watching them since I’m not really a fan but there was literally no noise on twitter that I had actually forgotten about them performing tonight. I did see that BP Coachella was trending so I thought something not so good happened lol
It was really bad, I thought they were gonna faint on stage for a sec. You will probably see some people praising them on twitter, but they are just fans in disguise, the korean internet are flaming them so bad. They were obviously struggling to breathe on stage during the whole time, not even singing, technically they were just yelling.

Yikes, they really are flamin them. And ls were really the new GG that people said were perfect for Coachella and look what happens.

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 16:33

I can't when these discussions start, they just use Rosé's voice as an example of a good vocalist lol

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 14:17

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Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.
Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

Same, it makes me appreciate them even more seeing the comparison to other groups. It's funny how they didn't even perform this year yet their coachella performances are going viral once again. Koreans asking kpop groups to be banned from leaving the country except for Blackpink lol. Some viral tweets from Koreans in the spoilers. I need them to make a comeback asap!

it's funny how everyone is now realizing that there's no group quite like BP and it took a demonstration from another group for them to realize it. after all these years of dragging the pinks for nothing, this day is probably the worst for kpop stans lmao

i used to pray for times like these

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 10:59

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Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.
Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

Was it really that bad?? I wasn’t planning on watching them since I’m not really a fan but there was literally no noise on twitter that I had actually forgotten about them performing tonight. I did see that BP Coachella was trending so I thought something not so good happened lol

It was really bad, I thought they were gonna faint on stage for a sec. You will probably see some people praising them on twitter, but they are just fans in disguise, the korean internet are flaming them so bad. They were obviously struggling to breathe on stage during the whole time, not even singing, technically they were just yelling.

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 10:40

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14 Apr 2024, 09:03
Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.
Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

Was it really that bad?? I wasn’t planning on watching them since I’m not really a fan but there was literally no noise on twitter that I had actually forgotten about them performing tonight. I did see that BP Coachella was trending so I thought something not so good happened lol

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 10:31

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14 Apr 2024, 09:03
Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.
Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

Same, it makes me appreciate them even more seeing the comparison to other groups. It's funny how they didn't even perform this year yet their coachella performances are going viral once again. Koreans asking kpop groups to be banned from leaving the country except for Blackpink lol. Some viral tweets from Koreans in the spoilers. I need them to make a comeback asap!

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 09:03

Omg Lesserafim’s coachella stage is a disaster, they can’t even sing a single word.

Can we still get the girls next album as a group by any chance? Has anyone headlined coachella more than once? After watched Lesserafim’s disaster stage it made me miss our girls even more.

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 07:15

Lisa is the most popular no matter what she release is going to do good numbers.

by **Guest** » 14 Apr 2024, 00:39

For Lisa, I hope she is taking vocal lessons seriously because she is pretty weak as a vocalist. Unless she wants to do more hip hop/rap songs then that’s also fine but I don’t really know how americans are going to feel about an Asian woman rapping and making hip hop music… Out of the 4, I really don’t know what her solo music will sound like

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 22:48

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I was looking at the Dyson hair straightener that's already sold out and it's about 2.5k my currency, which is very expensive for it.

In several countries like Singapore, Malaysia and Philippines that Dyson hair straightener really sold out and because of high demand they have announced policy of 1 machine per person only for some stores in Philippines.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 19:18

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Nobody cares anymore, you can also give your opinion here.
Do you agree with the troll? reply.
Don't you agree with that? reply to them.

Finally this place is free, the dictatorship is over.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 18:57

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.
True. I don't understand what is she doing? First of all who cares if she has her own company, like what's the big deal? People are either going to listen to her stuff or not, what she needs to do is promote her work not the damn company, it's supposed to be there to get things done.

It's just so stupid and pointless that she is shouting to the whole world she has lloud and now is signed to RCA. Literally nobody cares. A press release is more than enough, then she should use all that money to prepare for her album and release something of good quality. I just don't get her thought process.
Let her be, she been like this since her debut, not to mention now she has the money. It’s the same as her posting fancy cars on ig.
It doesn't help that people around her doesn't seem to have a clue what they need to do to get her promoted properly. If she really wants to be part of the us mainstream music industry, she has to start working on collabs, release good songs and goes on talk shows. I can't believe I'm about to say this, but at least Hybe is doing a proper US promo for jungkook, regardless of how tasteless and bland his music is, his team gets the job done without pulling some stupid stunts like this.

I was actually a bit amused when they released LLOUD merch, like for what? I can understand merch that promotes the artist or songs/albums (e.g. blackpink merch, born pink merch) but promoting the label?? I don't think that is the right marketing strategy for that.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 15:27

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 14:59

I've been thinking about what will happen to her when that man breaks up with her. One thing I've noticed is that he doesn't go after her anymore, he usually travels to be with her (before you ask, I'm not a stalker of him, I have Twitter and I see some accounts talking about it, and I like to gossip).

Lisa is at Coachella with a group of friends while he works in Switzerland. She spent her birthday in Thailand and he wasn't there, she was the one who traveled to be with him in Tokyo.

I think he's the one behind LLOUD... she will lose everything.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 14:54

I was looking at the Dyson hair straightener that's already sold out and it's about 2.5k my currency, which is very expensive for it.

Anyway, they had that Takashi Murakami and BP merch sales that's supposed to be from 11-14th April. I came on the 12th and it's already over. Apparently so many people came, so I guess it's sold out. I was looking at the price and it's crazy expensive. BP has become such a brand that people are just buying everything, I guess.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 13:56

Jisoo updated her weibo yesterday with photos from Dyson Supersonic Nural launch event in South Korea. She really shared her best photos there.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 09:38

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.
True. I don't understand what is she doing? First of all who cares if she has her own company, like what's the big deal? People are either going to listen to her stuff or not, what she needs to do is promote her work not the damn company, it's supposed to be there to get things done.

It's just so stupid and pointless that she is shouting to the whole world she has lloud and now is signed to RCA. Literally nobody cares. A press release is more than enough, then she should use all that money to prepare for her album and release something of good quality. I just don't get her thought process.

She can splurge as much as she wants on unimportant stuffs like promoting lloud & rca bcoz she has huge backup. I believe she will promo the heck out of her album later.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 08:54

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.
True. I don't understand what is she doing? First of all who cares if she has her own company, like what's the big deal? People are either going to listen to her stuff or not, what she needs to do is promote her work not the damn company, it's supposed to be there to get things done.

It's just so stupid and pointless that she is shouting to the whole world she has lloud and now is signed to RCA. Literally nobody cares. A press release is more than enough, then she should use all that money to prepare for her album and release something of good quality. I just don't get her thought process.
Let her be, she been like this since her debut, not to mention now she has the money. It’s the same as her posting fancy cars on ig.

It doesn't help that people around her doesn't seem to have a clue what they need to do to get her promoted properly. If she really wants to be part of the us mainstream music industry, she has to start working on collabs, release good songs and goes on talk shows. I can't believe I'm about to say this, but at least Hybe is doing a proper US promo for jungkook, regardless of how tasteless and bland his music is, his team gets the job done without pulling some stupid stunts like this.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 07:42

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.
True. I don't understand what is she doing? First of all who cares if she has her own company, like what's the big deal? People are either going to listen to her stuff or not, what she needs to do is promote her work not the damn company, it's supposed to be there to get things done.

It's just so stupid and pointless that she is shouting to the whole world she has lloud and now is signed to RCA. Literally nobody cares. A press release is more than enough, then she should use all that money to prepare for her album and release something of good quality. I just don't get her thought process.

Let her be, she been like this since her debut, not to mention now she has the money. It’s the same as her posting fancy cars on ig.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 05:55

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.

True. I don't understand what is she doing? First of all who cares if she has her own company, like what's the big deal? People are either going to listen to her stuff or not, what she needs to do is promote her work not the damn company, it's supposed to be there to get things done.

It's just so stupid and pointless that she is shouting to the whole world she has lloud and now is signed to RCA. Literally nobody cares. A press release is more than enough, then she should use all that money to prepare for her album and release something of good quality. I just don't get her thought process.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 04:27

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I know you hate these brands and fashion events, but this is where girls make money. Streams on Spotify don't make money, touring requires a lot of money, but on the other hand, if the tour is a success you earn double or triple the money you spent. So, these events are boring, but it's where she makes money.
Okay, but how long do you think these luxury brands are going to work with her when she's not releasing new stuff and starting to become irrelevant.

5th gen groups are already catching up with them in every way, i mean look at newjeans they have taken over some of the brands the pinks previously endorsed.

Rosé is no miley cyrus level of singer yet, this industry doesn't have three years to wait for you to release an album.

This.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 02:43

No, the full interview has not been released. We got a small clip. One full answer of one question.

Also, I don’t mind waiting. Of course she’s got labels that want her. Just because she hasn’t announced anything doesn’t mean she has no options? She can take her time. She’s been in an iron locked very restricted contract since she was a teenager. This next step for her is huge. It is for all the girls. She should do it how she wants in the right way for her.

I personally think she wants to announce it all at once or very close together. She’s not just going to say where she landed in terms of representation and then disappear till something is ready, I think. She’ll let us know when everything is ready to be rolled out. That’s just my opinion on it. I know no one asked lol but still.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 02:37

Maybe she's waiting how will it go for other members first. Anyhow, it's her life.

Her looks gets talked about more often, going to events filled with connections and media, followers are growing so she'll be fine.

People are obsessing with her and she haven't moved a hand yet

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 02:12

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Reading some of these posts, I do think you girls need to do other things in life and like other celebrities too. It's like you're invested in one person and get so frustrated when that person's not doing things that you want them to do. It's better to invest your time in other things, and let them do what they want to do, at the their own time and their own liking.
Who are you to judge others? This forum exists for people to discuss such things.

Umm, it's not judging, it's advice.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 02:02

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Reading some of these posts, I do think you girls need to do other things in life and like other celebrities too. It's like you're invested in one person and get so frustrated when that person's not doing things that you want them to do. It's better to invest your time in other things, and let them do what they want to do, at the their own time and their own liking.

Who are you to judge others? This forum exists for people to discuss such things.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 01:54

Reading some of these posts, I do think you girls need to do other things in life and like other celebrities too. It's like you're invested in one person and get so frustrated when that person's not doing things that you want them to do. It's better to invest your time in other things, and let them do what they want to do, at the their own time and their own liking.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 01:41

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I know you hate these brands and fashion events, but this is where girls make money. Streams on Spotify don't make money, touring requires a lot of money, but on the other hand, if the tour is a success you earn double or triple the money you spent. So, these events are boring, but it's where she makes money.

Okay, but how long do you think these luxury brands are going to work with her when she's not releasing new stuff and starting to become irrelevant.

5th gen groups are already catching up with them in every way, i mean look at newjeans they have taken over some of the brands the pinks previously endorsed.

Rosé is no miley cyrus level of singer yet, this industry doesn't have three years to wait for you to release an album.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 01:26

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When will the Dazed interview be out? I'll wait to start talking about her career. If she doesn't talk about her future moves, I'll be mad

I think it’s out already someone posted a longer version of text scan. The whole article gives me the vibe that she herself does even not know what she wants to do. I'm starting to wonder if no company wants to sign her…
meanwhile another fashion event again for her on the 15th. After that she’ll probably go back to ghosting mode until cannes with ysl. At this point she’s literally a model not a singer .

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 01:19

I know you hate these brands and fashion events, but this is where girls make money. Streams on Spotify don't make money, touring requires a lot of money, but on the other hand, if the tour is a success you earn double or triple the money you spent. So, these events are boring, but it's where she makes money.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 01:03

When will the Dazed interview be out? I'll wait to start talking about her career. If she doesn't talk about her future moves, I'll be mad

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 00:47

True she has no obligation to say yes to everything, but girl at least you could announce your new label or team by now? Isn’t that the most basic thing for a singer? it’s not like we want her to put out a new album by the end of the month, but at least let your fans see a little sense of progression.

She has no time to update on her career and has been ghosting her fans for months but every time she pops up it’s because of a fashion event. It’s really getting tired for the someone who supports her. seeing her fans on twitter clowning&dreaming about whatever the collaboration she could have it’s just pathetic atp

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 00:41

Rosie is probably going for the singer songwriter route so it’s gonna take her more time with writing and composing for a full length album. On the other hand, I think Lisa will probably have a team of people write for her (writers camp) so I can see her releasing faster.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 00:13

When did she say that? If you’re talking about the clip from the Dazed interview I took it to mean that she’s not going to just feel obligated to say yes to things. She’s going to wait for something that is worth it to her. It seemed more of her new philosophy for herself and career. I didn’t see her saying she’s taking a break now. It seemed that that was her saying the reason we haven’t heard from her is because since the tour ended she has been working on things that are worth the wait. And to ‘wait and see’.

by **Guest** » 13 Apr 2024, 00:07

I think Rosé is the one we need to worry about. She just said in the magazine interview that she’s gonna take a break lmao.
The competition is brutal in the industry, and if you don't keep up people will forget about you. Not to mention her poor fans, especially when they see the other three girls are constantly active and taking new jobs. I mean, your fans come for your beautiful voice and your music, not for a model who spend most of the year at fashion events.

like who gave her the courage to take a break again when she was basically the least worked of the four. Smh

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 18:38

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Damn! Can't you girls just be happy that they're doing something to progress their careers? But hey, haters gonna hate.

I can't see any progress in what she has been doing. Do you really think americans care she has label and is working with RAC??

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 17:20

Damn! Can't you girls just be happy that they're doing something to progress their careers? But hey, haters gonna hate.

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 17:14

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Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.

Lmao cuz that’s her character, she likes to show off(not saying it’s bad tho)

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 15:49

Why is Lisa putting her face on every billboard in the USA? Every step she takes regarding her career is wrong.

First, get involved with the French elite and promote herself in France.

Now, she is focusing in the USA, but americans doesn't knows what LLOUD is. She should go on a talk show to tell them about her company, but she prefers to promote LLOUD x RAC in every billboards around USA as it was something relevant...

Singers use to promote their song and album everywhere not a collab with record labels.

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 13:41

Fist bumps for the bros

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 13:26

- obsession for Rosé should be studied.

My pretty baby I love that she’s not afraid of ahowing predebut pics of herself unlike like a certain someone

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 13:07

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Did anyone get super straight vibe from rosé today?

Let me start of by saying rosé is a bias and jisoo is my bias wrecker and I always hoped for rosé to be gay because I have a massive crush on her. In fact she the most likely to be gay but...

The way she carried herself today?.. with girls especially I couldn't but feel that the way she was interacting with the girls reminds of typical straight girls. I feel like closeted lesbians hesitate to be so touchy feely with girls. And she had a certain friendliness that I feel most lesbian wouldn't be able to develop( I am saying as a lesbian,) I feel even when a lesbian doesn't feel romantic connection with a girl they still remain a little distance? I don't know man

It could be due to cultural differences. In lot of countries[especially homophobic countries] lesbians remain a certain distance to not get labeled as a creep.

Sometimes straight girls assume all lesbians are in love with them that's why a lot of girls maintain a distance too.

However I think In Korean culture it might not be the same case.

Here is Reddit post I found about girl complaining that Korean lesbians are super touchy and feely but when op tries to make things official k-lesbians tell her they were just being friendly and not flirting

What the hell, Korean Lesbians???
I’ve been here for 2 years and I love it, but the same fucking thing keeps happening to me.

Girl The First: We met on a lesbian dating app. I saw her picture, thought she was utterly adorable, so I sent her a message saying so… Honestly, I figured she was way out of my league and wouldn’t respond. But she did, told me I was beautiful. Sweet. We connected via kakao, and chatted for a bit, and she desperately wanted to meet. So, we did. We made plans to meet one night at a lesbian club, and when we did, I saw her eyes light up, and we hugged, she bought me drinks, we danced, and held hands… it was lovely. Until about 2 hours in when she started telling me about this girl that she really liked and hoped she would be able to go out with soon. What the hell?? Girl the Second. Another from this dating app. We chatted for a while in the app, and then exchanged kakao IDs. We met, had a lovely time, and continued chatting. Daily. Every morning we sent each other greetings, and through out the day we would chat about whatever we were doing, and then before going to sleep always had to say goodnight. Every weekend we made plans together – movies, art galleries, dinners, plays… always something… usually her idea. After a few months of this, I couldn’t take it any more so I gingerly approached the idea of making things official. And she was shocked… we were just friends! What the hell? Girl the Third. A girl I kept seeing around town. One time at a foreign food market she actually approached me and started talking to me. We had a pleasant enough brief conversation. I didn’t think much of it…sometimes Koreans like to talk to foreigners. But then about a week or so after that, I bumped into her at a lesbian club. She was so excited… she grabbed my arm and introduced herself again, saying “I hope you remember me! Do you? When I talked to you at the food market, I really wanted to get your number but I was too shy. But I am so excited to see you are a lesbian! Can I get your number?” So, this one is obvious, right? We exchange numbers, and begin chatting… long, intimate chats about our beliefs and philosophies. We can’t meet again right away because of distance, but still…it’s going well. Until I find out through the grape vine that she is dating someone. And not just anyone… she’s dating a girl I fucking introduced her to at the club. So obviously she was never interested in me, she just wanted to be friends. What the hell???

Girl the fourth. Met her at a dinner and games night for lesbians. We got along well. Began chatting. I had been burned to many times though, so I wasn’t going to dive right in or anything. But she was so…effusive. She really wanted to get together again, with just me. Messages sent to me full of heart emoticons and exclamation points. She talked about us going on trips together, for crying out loud. Not me… her… she brought that up. More than once! But everytime we would make a plan, something would happen (on her end) and we wouldn’t get to meet. This went on for months. I saw her a couple of times at lesbian functions, but we could never connect one on one, despite her insistence that she really wanted to. Finally I couldn’t stand it any more and just asked her straight out if she wanted to go on a date with me, no more beating around the bush. She doesn’t. She’s not “interested in dating anyone right now”. Just wants to be friends. …the hell???

Girl the Fifth. Another social function for lesbians. This girl is way out of my league, but she wants my number. We chat for about a week or so, and I have to admit I like her, but I don’t think she likes me. I try to figure out a way to ask her if she likes me without asking her, after all, it has been just a week… so it comes up rather naturally in conversation, and I ask her what type of girl she likes… she says “I like girls I can connect with…” which is a fairly vague statement. Not sure what to do with that. But about a week later, she asks me out to dinner. I can’t help it, I get a little excited. I tell my friends, but I hedge my bets (I’ve been burned too many times by now)… “not sure it’s a date” I say… they all say “Come on, it’s a date…”. So we meet. We have dinner at a nice restaurant, we have amazing conversation about our travels, and hopes and dreams and families and… it is amazing and natural…when it comes time to go she really wants to pay. We leave the restaurant and I’m not sure what will happen now… as well as it has gone, I’m still not sure. But she wants to go out for drinks afterwards, so we do… and we continue talking. And it is amazing. She pays for the drinks. We only end the night because we live in different parts of the city and need to catch the last train/bus home. She walks me to my bus stop and waits with me for the bus, I worry that it might mean she will miss her train, but she won’t leave, she insists on staying and waiting with me… and unprompted says “I think you and I connect very well…”, which reminds me of what she said about the type of girl she likes, and I’m so excited… because yes! This was a date! We have a lingering hug goodbye when the bus comes. And the next morning I receive a text from her saying that she is so sorry, she was thinking about our conversations the night before and thinks that maybe I misunderstood things, she isn’t interested in dating me, she never was she only wanted to go out to dinner with me because she wanted to be my friend.

WHAT THE HELL??!!?

So op as you can see it might be just culture thing.

by **Guest** » 12 Apr 2024, 10:22

Im just so sad i miss the old rosie

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