by Guest » Today, 01:22
Guest wrote: ↑Today, 01:00
I'm sorry to say this but if women only ping to you when they're wearing hoodies and a cap, your gaydar really is awful. I never used to think that femmephobia was a thing before this thread was invaded by teenagers who act like the worst thing you can say about their favourite idol is that they aren't "masc"... Like really, what's up with gen z? Why are they acting this bizarre?
Literally mannn I'm so tired of this topic being brought up over and over.
It's not the clothes but the vibe that person has! It's very difficult to put into words but it's a certain attitude/mannerisms that gay people tend to have and us gays can easily detect them in other ppl.
For example, you can put Billie Eilish, Fletcher or Cara Delevingne in the most feminine outfit yet they still "ping" and have a queer vibe to them.
In kpop I'll just put newjeans as an example. They are often styled in baggy and sporty clothes, however, there's one member that I get a strong gay vibe from, Minji. Danielle looks extremely straight even when she's wearing "masculine" clothes lol
However, Hanni, who is more femme presenting and does not look stereotypically gay at all, I also get that queer vibe from her
I think gaydar is a very personal thing, it's how we instinctively perceive people in a way that we might relate to, if that makes sense. It is not a list of stereotypes that you can just tick boxes off
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I'm sorry to say this but if women only ping to you when they're wearing hoodies and a cap, your gaydar really is awful. I never used to think that femmephobia was a thing before this thread was invaded by teenagers who act like the worst thing you can say about their favourite idol is that they aren't "masc"... Like really, what's up with gen z? Why are they acting this bizarre?
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Literally mannn I'm so tired of this topic being brought up over and over.
It's not the clothes but the vibe that person has! It's very difficult to put into words but it's a certain attitude/mannerisms that gay people tend to have and us gays can easily detect them in other ppl.
For example, you can put Billie Eilish, Fletcher or Cara Delevingne in the most feminine outfit yet they still "ping" and have a queer vibe to them.
In kpop I'll just put newjeans as an example. They are often styled in baggy and sporty clothes, however, there's one member that I get a strong gay vibe from, Minji. Danielle looks extremely straight even when she's wearing "masculine" clothes lol
However, Hanni, who is more femme presenting and does not look stereotypically gay at all, I also get that queer vibe from her :hmmm:
I think gaydar is a very personal thing, it's how we instinctively perceive people in a way that we might relate to, if that makes sense. It is not a list of stereotypes that you can just tick boxes off